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Gus Lee on Creating Courage

Posted on Dec 5th, 2006 by Alex Chua : Clarity Coach Alex Chua
We've seen the power of courage. We've also been reminded of the dangers of cowardice and apathy.

When an executive shows courage by facing her fears, even her critics are secretly inspired. But when a boss folds to uncertainty, the courage and capability of the organization become as usable as confetti in a tornado.

Courage is a stunning quiality: it is learnable. I, a former poster boy for cowardice, know this. In an inner city ghetto, I accepted fear as my master and made daily sacrifices to it from a quaking heart. Bullies cultivated a taste for my blood. Tiny tots and girls fed up by my crying could pound me. My two exceptionally clever moves of fleeing and blaming others proved unsuccessful. I shouldn't brag, but I was a very entertaining little kid.

I was sent to a YMCA boxing program to save my life. The tank top kept falling off because it required shoulders. In shorts, black socks and scuffed Buster Browns, I looked like a toothpick in a tutu.

My coach recoiled, "Aw, cripe, kid, ya make me wanna cry." Facing a body bag that was bigger than me, I burst into tears. When Coach hit the bell for me to fight, I dove through the ropes, instantly smacking into a wall which acute myopia had failed to detect.

Coach Tony knew that training and practice reverse the habits of fear. It is the one way courage is learned.

"The percentage of mistakes in quick decisions is no greater than in long-drawn-out vacillation, and the effect of decisiveness itself 'makes things go' and creates confidence." ~ Anne O'Hare McCormick
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BAD! Kitty : Artist with Soul
about 3 hours later
BAD! Kitty said

Wonderful story, thanks for being brave enough to share it!
Heather

about 5 hours later
Stacy said

What an inspiring story!  I agree, the more you practice, the less fearful it is.  You realize that you really can conquer the task, no matter how difficult it may seem.  Do you still box???

Alex Chua : Clarity Coach
about 18 hours later
Alex Chua said

Ops! I must clarify that I did not write this! Gus Lee is the brave one who wrote this! I read it & love it so I'm posting it here to motivate & inspire myself. Sorry for any confusion.

Erin : Book Lover
1 day later
Erin said

Either way thanks for sharing.  I am chronically indecisive but when I look back I realize that all my hours and days of nervousness and fear leading up to an action or decision never change the outcome.  The quote at the end puts it well.  Just do it because even if you make a mistake you'll have gained some confidence and you're moving forward and learning and growing.  I really need to stop being so afraid of making a mistake.

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